through your veins, you are ready
for an adrenaline rush all the time.
This is a transitional time, when
your body is experiencing physical
and psychological changes, thus
your emotions and hormones are in
turmoil.
Your mind and heart want to
experience the white waves on a
surf board, to feel the morning dew
on your bare feet. It is all about
discovering happiness, loneliness,
madness and “love”.
The mind and the heart are
innocent and pure. They are curious
as to what a puff of smoke feels like,
to feel the ecstasy of a fast drive or
to sit on the edge of the roof top of
a building.
It doesn’t know what fear is.
Don’t sell your soul to
the devil
This is the time when a girl needs to
remember who she is and what her
parents had cultured her to be in
her childhood. She needs to remind
herself constantly the difference
between good and bad so that she
doesn’t lose herself in the midst of
chaotic youth.
This is the time where she needs to
protect her soul and build an
incorruptible image to follow her, in
her years as an adult.
Boys are whatever –
friends are forever
Since the mind is very fragile at this
stage, it tends to make fickle
decisions. Young girls live in a la-la
land of illusion, where they give love
priority over friendships.
The feeling of love gets young girls
so excited, that it over powers every
other relationships they have. The
most sensitive of relationships you
have in your youth is the one you
share with your girlfriends. They too
are young and impulsive at this
time, so issues as small as “you
didn’t call me back” can break ties
forever.
Knock knock, girls. Boys will be
boys; they can’t be there to giggle
over a silly joke, or to go shopping
for that perfect lip gloss. Make your
friendships last, don’t lose them
over puppy love. It will be these
friends who will be trailing into
adulthood with you; meanwhile
there is no guarantee, whether if the
teenage boyfriend you are dying
for would turn out to be your true
flame.
Your best friend will always be there
to boost your morale on a blue day
or cheer for you when you ace an
interview. Best friends may not have
spoken to each other in ages but
will pick right back up from where
they left it, the last time they met.
So girls, don’t let go of your best
friends over petty issues, you will
need them to survive the upcoming
rollercoaster ride, they call
‘adulthood’.
You are beautiful
You are beautiful and don’t let
anybody tell you otherwise. It is an
earnest request; learn to appreciate
yourself and your body. Nurture
your soul and mind to become a
beautiful person, don’t tamper with
your body to satisfy other people.
Have a strong social foundation and
use that as your strength. Some
girls in the rush to feel accepted
make drastic changes, which may
tarnish them for life.
It’s very important to believe in your
inner beauty to bring that glow of
confidence on your outer beauty.
Aim for the long run
Set a long-term goal every year.
Write it on a piece of paper and put
it up on your dressing table mirror.
They should have substantial value,
like to achieve an A grade or maybe
lose 10 pounds of weight. Your
goals should be set to achieve a
purpose and they should have a
meaning in your life.
It should be something to make
your time worthwhile. Having a goal
in life will keep you focused and the
challenge will keep you motivated.
It will help you achieve something
bigger in life, as compared to those
who are still running around trying
to be in-vogue. To achieve
something later in life, you need to
start working on it today. Sow today
to reap tomorrow.
Set your boundaries
Be the gold that needs effort to be
dug out, be the flower that freshens
up the surrounding but will wilt if
touched. You should set your
boundaries as they are necessary
and healthy. Don’t let anyone bully
you or use you.
You need to define your space and
limitations as it’s up to you, to allow
a person in to your life. Human
nature is such that no one will have
the guts to invade your space
unless you allow them too. If you
stand up for yourself and you self-
esteem, no one can push you over.
A young girl is blooming and
growing getting ready to come out
of her shell and become a beautiful
butterfly. If you want to feel pretty
and respect yourself don’t let
anyone cross their boundaries. Go
after your dreams, laugh a lot; but
don’t let that fence down till
everyone you know, discerns why
you put it there.